Sexual sovereignty belongs to everybody and every ‘body’. Through understanding the powerful impact of embodied psychosexuality, individuals learn that their body is a place where they can feel safe and relaxed, that they can trust their body, and also trust the pleasure that emerges naturally from cultivating a genuine intimacy with oneself.
It is through empowering one individual at a time that we transform the world into a place where we can enjoy, celebrate and experience a greater sense of wellbeing and pleasure for the duration of our lifetime.
EVEN THE CURRENTLY AVAILABLE PSYCHOSEXUAL TRAINING ARE MISSING THE MARK. WHY?
Psychosexuality looks at the relationship between the psychology of a person and their sexual function and sexual experience and how the two influence one another. However, although this understanding supports practitioners to bridge the gap between our beliefs/emotions and sexual experience and to gain a better understanding for what will facilitate a greater healing for the client, there’s still one profound piece missing from the current way in which psychosexuality is being utilized: the somatic experience of sexuality along with the impact of tissue memory on function, pleasure and orgasm. Psychosexuality applies to every BODY.
My Embodied PsychoSexual/Désilets Method has the unique addition of weaving somatic awareness into the process, taking into consideration the impact of the practitioners embodiment (aka limbic resonance) as well as encouraging client active participation in implementing interoceptive awareness, somatic practices, and self-regulating techniques. The addition of embodied component to the psychosexual methodology makes it far more impactful and transformative.
Currently this method has been demonstrated to have measurable physiological impact on the sexual function of the vulva.
Over 2.5 decades ago I was told by my surgeon that I had two weeks to live after a traumatic rape experience. Faced with choosing to live or die, I obviously chose life. This choice led me on a deep healing journey of recovering my body, mind, and spirit in the realms of sensuality, sexuality, pleasure and orgasm. A few years later, women started to ask to train with me. After teaching in 16 different countries around the work to tens of thousands of women from all walks of life, ages, cultures and orientations, a tried and true method emerged and led to me getting a PhD in Transpersonal Psychology, specializing in the psychosexual wellbeing of women and in the sexual sovereignty of individuals.
Over time, I started to recognize the foundational necessity of this understanding as the missing link in nearly any profession that was handling human sexuality in one form or another. This led to the 5 year co-created study with Dr. Wickman, a luminary Ob-Gyn, where we were able to measure the impact of embodied psychosexuality on the vulva. It’s from this practical and researched approach that this particular course was created.
What is psychosexuality? How does the DM approach differ from others? Why is the somatic portion crucial? Current professionals in need of psychosexuality (medicine, therapy, first responders, social workers, advocates, shelters, etc). The failure of talk therapy and body practices without psychosexuality. We cannot take sides – what are we serving? Clear mission statement.
Modern view on body/mind, neurosculpting, plasticity of the nervous system and body, sexual anatomy, conditions—physical, social, relational & psychological—that impact sexual function, and STIs.
Definition creates reality, limbic resonance, transference, mirror neurons, cellular repatterning, assisting new habits, establishing & deepening trust with self and body, handling conflict with integrity, practitioner is embodied—what does this mean?
What is sexual sovereignty? What does it mean for individuals? How does it affect current cultures and governing bodies? How can we speak of it in everyday lingo? How can we embody this? Orientation doesn’t matter, we’re not here to tell others HOW to have sex or with WHOM—we’re here to support individuals to be aligned with themselves, their body and their desires.
Historical impact on women re: sexuality, current media influence, current dilemmas (freedom/responsibility), trauma, numbness, dissociation, coming back into the body, loving the vulva, female sexual anatomy and function, impact of hormones, cancer, birth, & menopause.
Historical impact on men re: sexuality, current media influence, current dilemmas (freedom/responsibility), trauma, numbness, addiction, coming back into the body, loving the cock, male sexual anatomy and function, impact of hormones, cancer, & andropause.
New views on non-cis-gendered sexuality, current media influence, current dilemmas (freedom/responsibility), trauma, numbness, addiction, coming back into the body, loving the genitals, sexual anatomy and function (post-op), impact of hormones, cancer, & hormonal-shifts.
How domestication impacts psychosexuality, cultural memes, religious ideals, familial inheritance, social conditioning, finding sexual sovereignty during an era of victimhood and woundology.
Sex as functional model, sex through the meaning model, impact of identity on pleasure, pleasure as the central force in education and expression, the function of the erotic mind and fantasy.
Shifting from victim to sexually sovereign relating, self-ownership & cultivation of desire, what does intimacy mean and does it matter? how does love fit in this? What is desire? How do we explore it safely?
What is The Désilets Method? It is an innovative & integrative system that’s based on the premise that people are psychosexual beings, and therefore, for any empowerment or healing to occur and be long lasting, there must be an inclusion of both their psyche and their soma (body). This method is the missing link in the field of women’s sexuality and is based on nearly two-and-a-half decades of tried-&-true practices (with the Jade Egg and other somatic techniques) that were both personally and professionally researched and refined.
There are two essential components to this method:
1. Embodied PsychoSexual Method (EPSM) is the understanding of sexual sovereignty through the psychological and somatic connection each individual has with their sexuality. This applies to every ‘body’.
There are ten foundational premises by which all sessions, workshops, coaching, and work are based upon.
2. The Désilets Method (DM) which brings in all of the 10 foundational premises, plus two additional ones in combination with somatic exercises. The methodology uses mindfulness, self-awareness, breath, meditation, movement, and erotic activation to enhance desire, transform imbalances, rebuild trust, and re-patterning cellular memory. The method involves using physician-certified techniques of the Jade Egg.
My PhD dissertation closely examined the impact of these practices on the psycho-sexual well-being of women, while simultaneously testing the practices through sharing them with women of all ages and backgrounds, in over 16 different countries around the world, over the past 20+ years. Countless women have been inspired and transformed by the Désilets Method,which includes the proper context and use of the Jade Egg and its accompanying practices.
NOTE: This is the ONLY existing Physician Endorsed Jade Egg technology. And this qualification is currently changing how female medicine is being done and will only continue to grow in its reach and influence as a symbol of excellence in this industry.
1 week of LIVE in-person training where our physician-endorsed Jade Egg method will be shared for both continued personal development as well as for professional facilitation. Deeper qi gong practices will be shared to further develop your limber resonance, while experiential pieces will be shared so you can have tools to support client transformation.
2 hour LIVE Zoom calls reviewing trainings with
On the business side, we will give you access to a fantastic Quiz Funnel training so you can enhance and grow your business.
You will have one accountability partner we call a ‘Muse’. This person will support (and be supported by you) to develop your graduation project.
Clear instructions will be given for each segment so that you can maximize effectiveness and
create a useable product by the end of the training.
You will be encouraged to facilitate during the 6 month period and collect feedback forms from
your clients/students. You need 50 in total to complete the entire program (note: if you already
submitted 25 from the EPSM portion of the program, they count towards the 50 needed).
This program includes a 1 year license to use all the IP of The Désilets Method. This includes any anatomy charts, the psychosexual map, and other facilitation resources.
You also have a full year membership to the Daring Project, our LIVE FB community where Dr. Saida goes live weekly. Here there are hundreds of video resources that cover a wide range of client-based questions and Dr. Saida’s ideas/solutions.
You will not be left alone to fend for yourself. We are in this together. After graduation we have quarterly Alumni calls that have ‘continuing education’ and support. These are available to all active members.
All graduates will be featured on our Ambassador Directory. Interview opportunities that arise may also be shared with you as well as access to wholesale prices for Jade Eggs and Dr. Saida’s books.
