Transform Your Relationship with Pleasure: Break Free from Taboos and Discover the Joy of Self-Love

Unlock Pleasure, Embrace Desires, and Discover Your Authentic Sexual Self

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Imagine a life where pleasure isn’t shrouded in guilt or confusion but is celebrated as a vital part of your well-being. ‘Awakening The Sensual Woman’ is more than just a program; it’s a transformative journey designed for women who are ready to shed years of discomfort, misinformation, and societal shame around self-pleasure. Dive deep into content curated by leading edge experts that not only educates but also liberates. 

Explore and embrace your sensuality in a space where discovery leads to empowerment, increased self-esteem, and a profound connection with your own body. These REPLAYS of the LIVE 6-week immersion series offer a unique blend of self-discovery, practical guidance, and empowering insights, equipping you with the tools to rewrite your narrative towards a life filled with self-love, joy, and uninhibited pleasure. Step into this journey and let ‘Awakening The Sensual Woman’ be the catalyst for a profound transformation in your relationship with your own sensuality. The time to celebrate your femininity in its full spectrum is now.”

Led by world-renowned pleasure doc, Dr. Saida, and the author of Optimal Sex Life, Aaron Michael, this immersive 6-week program is designed to unleash your pleasure potential like never before. Through expert guidance and transformative exercises, you’ll learn mind-blowing techniques, explore your desires, and develop unshakable confidence in expressing your authentic sexual self.

❤️‍🔥Enhance Your Pleasure: Discover pleasure-enhancing, self-loving techniques that will leave you breathless and craving for more.

❤️‍🔥Embrace Your Desires: Break free from societal norms and celebrate your unique sexuality without judgment or shame.

❤️‍🔥Boost Confidence and Self-Acceptance: Cultivate a deep sense of self-acceptance, body positivity, and unapologetic self-love.

❤️‍🔥Develop a Deeper Connection: Tap into your fantasies, explore role-play, and establish a profound connection with your own desires.

❤️‍🔥Discover Your Hidden Treasures: Learn your pleasure anatomy (which is different from the typical reproductive anatomy) and how you genitals are actually a system of pleasure!

Over the course of six lessons, you’ll have the opportunity to explore a series of curated playshops through replay sessions, featuring guided meditations, pleasure-anatomy insights, and recorded Q&A segments. Each week, you can engage with the content led by Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael, covering topics such as pleasure-enhancing techniques, embracing your unique sexuality, body positivity, fantasy exploration, mindfulness practices, and integration for long-lasting empowerment – all at your own pace.

Included with this immersion is a one-month membership in The Daring Project facebook group. My private global community of incredible uplifting women. If you’re not on Facebook, and don’t want to be, we’ll invite you into our Daring Project LITE, which meets on Zoom on the first and last Wednesday of the month. (But you’ll miss out on all the great conversations and camaraderie!)

But don’t just take our word for it – hear from our Pleasure Pioneers! These courageous individuals have experienced incredible transformations in their lives through practicing intentional self-loving. Read their inspiring stories of liberation, pleasure, and personal growth:

I very much enjoyed the voice meditation. The “mmm” sound was my favorite. Doing this meditation reminds me how good it feels in my body to make sounds and the shifts that can occur. Doing this practice will be a great reminder to add sound to my daily life.
Alana
WoW! Even in the midst of heavy challenges they really help me to regulate my nervous system and to balance and strengthen me so I stand more clear and strong in the midst of it all. And I also feel that my jade egg practice has deepened by this too. I am forever grateful that I found you and your work and will continue with this practice for the rest of my life. From the deep of my heart, thank you.
Marija
The voice meditation is incredibly powerful. I have practiced it several times, but yesterday as I was practicing, my voice liberated itself in an unexpected and rare way. I was enjoying feeling pleasure move through me with the sounds, just allowing my body and throat to do what it needed. My voice got very loud and moved from pleasure noise to a primal scream. Rage came up, deep grief came up, all through voice and semi-involuntary body movement. I allowed it to run its course, and then had a self pleasure session. I walked through the rest of the day feeling more free, grounded, and present than I have been in a long time. I’m not sure what I was grieving or what the anger was about, but I’m grateful it was able to move through and out. Thank you again Saida for offering space for deep healing.
Addison
I want to say how much I'm enjoying the Pleasurable Self-Loving immersion. This was so needed to get my self love engine started again after being stuck in a bit of a self hate hole for a little while, so thank you so much for sharing all of this amazing information, techniques and guidance with us!!
C.C.
I've got a message from my Yoni for you two! She wants to personally thank you for teaching me all these layers of exquisite anatomy (I am so inspired!) and how to consciously approach and touch her! She absolutely loves the slow pace and the build up every week (which is saying something, because she's very slow and selective ). She is sending you lots of juicy love.
E.M.
Ahhhhh….when the student is ready the teacher comes!!! Between week two and this class today… I am coming to a deep understanding of the difference between masturbation and self love. My gawd…as though I had to give myself permission to experience the later. PS: “Wholly Vestibule”! Rockin the old woman’s world!
J.B.
These teachings are such a profound gift. Still working on the shift to relating with myself as a deep lover.... It's so easy to let other priorities get in the way even though I know this is the gateway to expansion in all areas. The resistance is real! I also see this with my clients, many of whom are new parents. I'd love all ideas on how to overcome these blocks to making practice a priority... I think a lot of it has to do with resisting the uncomfortable feelings and sensations that can come up, and I also wonder if it's as you'd said actually resistance to feeling really good…
I.G.
I was stricken with how beautifully, gently and respectfully Aaron was touching the model, so much so that I got quite emotional. It def left an indelible impression on my heart and soul and I will use it as a reorienting experience to prioritize receiving that level of respect from myself and my partner. Pleasurable Self-Loving was the BOMB !!
K.B.
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Unlock six immersive hours of transformative content with our replay package, accessible right away. Dive into the recorded sessions led by Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael, and embark on a journey with a community of individuals committed to unlocking their pleasure potential.

Imagine the joy, confidence, and self-acceptance that await you. It’s time to embrace your desires, enhance your pleasure, and cultivate a lifelong journey of self-discovery.

No need to worry about limited spots! This replay package is designed to provide you with the same personalized guidance and support as our live sessions. Engage with the content at your own pace and on your own terms.

Register now to gain access to the Awakening The Sensual Woman Immersion replays. By the end of your journey, you’ll emerge with a deep understanding of your desires, enhanced pleasure techniques, and a newfound confidence that will transform your life.

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What's included

  • The Voice & Breath
  • The Clitoris & Pudendal Nerve
  • The Vaginal Vestibule
  • The Vaginal Opening
  • The Urethral & Perineal Sponges
  • The Cervix & Uterus
  • Handouts with anatomical graphics
  • Weekly Tips for Play
  • Transcript of each session

Post Session insights and questions answered

Full Finding Home Embodiment Practice

A video discussion with Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael about the dynamics of penetration: the deeper we enter ourselves, the deeper we access our own psyche.

One month membership in The Daring Project, so that you have a safe space to discuss all that you discover as you explore your own pleasure.

I want to celebrate, and express my joy and appreciation at experiencing a more pronounced, direct connection with my inner life, lately, which I believe is linked with me engaging with the practices here : ) Am also enjoying more fun, and unexpected connections, friendly and casual, with others. I love that, and long may it continue! Have practiced with the Jade Egg three or four times now. Other practices such as our psycho-sexual map, I experience more deeply now than in the first weeks of the course. I feel like I’m more in my body. And after the last time with the egg, I felt like I had been switched-on, very alive and awake, totally here.
Marce
I’ve just practiced the relaxed arousal, and remembered how I used to do this all the time! I don’t remember when I stopped pleasuring myself or why…life just took over I guess. And I seem to stop when I get into a relationship, relying on the other person for that pleasure. I will endeavor to bring this back into my life more and more. I feel this is going to be where my learning and insights lie! Maybe I should first share that yesterday evening I did the relaxed arousal meditation. I didn’t orgasm, but it was beautiful. What a profound generosity and sharing Saida! I felt your love of women and our sexuality go very deep into me. What I also felt was a complete acceptance of myself, my body, my timing, my sexuality. Not in a big climax, but in a deeply relaxing and healing way. Feeling the space in my womb as a new landscape that I love, and want to continue to explore and make a temple for pleasure. It was like entering a big dancing hall in an old castle. Everything was there. Maybe the party hadn’t started yet. But the setting couldn’t be more gorgeous. Waking up today I self pleasured and it was different somehow.. Stronger. I made such sweet sounds of pleasure.
Sian
The Pleasurable Self-Loving has been amazing and will take so much practice to integrate everything, what a precious gift! Session one absolutely floored me with the simplest thing; Aaron touched the silicone model with more respect than I have ever received. It immediately overwhelmed my attention, and over the next 20 minutes it became clear that looking back over my life most of my difficulties were stemming from a lack of respect from me to myself, and therefore I didn't expect it from anyone. Life changing. I am grateful that I could center and incorporate that understanding and move those boundaries, it's already changed my life and relationships. If I didn't get anything else (and I did-boy howdy!) that demonstration was powerful in the extreme. Love you all so much!
M.S
Intimate-edge content delivered with such tender care. It made self-touch so normal! I felt at ease learning to pleasure and thus love myself deeper and fuller. I came away completely grateful that such practical erotic teachings exist!
E.F.
I absolutely loved week 4 as the continuation of a super amazing exploration space so far. I think week 3 totally shifted some core set points in my system. My close friend pointed out that my walking gait has been shifted (true). I am sitting deeper into myself and a bit more settled back! I was able to make some contacts with parts that felt like whatever it is I am longing for "that is it". That does it, brings me home.OMG our bodies are endlessly amazing! I loved Aaron's share at the end about approaching our selves/bodies as sacred space! This series is guiding me into places I have felt strangely estranged from. Thank you for taking the time to help us delve into this anatomy! Totally awesome
T.S.
First a warm heartfelt thank you to you Saida & Aaron for your creative inspiration to ignite & share this delicious healing & awakening wisdom here. My body, yoni & heart feel so grateful for all the love and refined care you both bring. So appreciate the slower pace and step by step layering of new information. This invitation to discover both an awakening, a deepening into fresh enlivened pleasure and care & respect for areas holding tension, contraction, numbness & trauma. A profound inner space to orient from, regulate from and flower from is stirring and awakening once again!!! What a delicious gift to receive!!!
K.M.
Seriously, it's incredible to have you lead into possibility. This truly demonstrated to me the potential of sensation/healing from holding a touch. Healing impatience one touch at a time.
L.J.
I just practiced session 2 again, and something rather wonderful happened. The whole experience has borne out what you say about how when you self pleasure, be aware of the beliefs you have about what is possible for you in your own life. So when I feel this natural organic pleasure (and in this case, an orgasm) then it starts to break down the negative beliefs about my life in general.
K.D.
I have been dabbling in these practices for several years. Resisting on many levels. Going only as fast as the slowest part of me. Often depriving myself of pleasure for months. Participating in practice and feeling so numb and disconnected that I pop in and out with discouragement. I continue to be patient and gentle with myself as I trust the trauma in my body needs to be loved gently. Today I am celebrating!!! I feel so relieved and excited to have this new connection, and that my body has softened and opened to me. Tears are flowing as I write this as it has felt like I have been in “jail” for 50-something years. I so appreciate this space and the safety to share!!
T.C.
I have found myself becoming hypervigilant when I start to feel eros pulsing and tingling within me, which shuts it down. I think it’s because I am afraid that it won’t last, as this has been my repeated experience—being “abandoned” by life. I am afraid essentially that I’m not a real part of the beautiful, messy, ever-growing, ever-shining life force. Here are my affirmations: I trust in my body. I trust in goodness and growth. I trust in my power to choose. I trust in aliveness. I now find myself knowing that I will get there—-with repetition and persistence in all these amazing practices. It helps me soften the fear.
A.L.S.
I can't get enough of Saida's voice and her magical words whenever she guides me in a pleasure practice or a jade egg practice. Her words come from deep within her understanding of her own pleasure and body! I'm usually quite a driven person, and her voice unfailingly invites me to dive into the delicious feminine current, into slowing down, letting go, receiving, and BEING. The simple practice in the first Pleasurable Self-Loving is again working so well for me, helping me connect with my deeper pleasure, and I'm sure I will revisit it again and again when I need to slow down and touch in. The voice and connection to the throat that Aaron taught is lovely too, and it deserves more exploration on my part. It's nice to see two wonderful teachers who have such pristine integrity collaborate!
V.S.
Love both of your commitment to supporting all of us in our freedom and empowerment around all of this! Take away, yes to deeper investigation to the meaning I am assigning to pleasure. How powerful it is to consciously choose meaning that actually lights us up rather than shuts us down! Gratitude for this work helping me recognize the importance of conscious choices and the solo practice that builds sexual confidence and gives me the tools and space to continually open up the inquiry on my edge.
T.S.
Since the Pleasurable Self-Loving more eros is coming free and lived and I am surprised when I go in the so called world enjoying myself more while being in contact with others known and unknown and not shying away staying present and enjoying being my eros-self in contact...very happy that this is growing step by step....more of this please
M.M.C.
I really feel great about my intention of playfulness with the Pleasurable Self-Loving, and I've seen that kind of play out in a few ways: in creativity, daring with my partner, and also firstly, really a comfort level of touching myself — and being shameless about it. And really enjoying and being curious about my internal tissue and holding attention, whether it's perineum or the fossa, that's been really interesting. But I often think about takeaways in other areas of my life. For me this has been huge. For me I've been a lot more playful. I see creativity playing out in different areas of my life.
L.J.
What I love is that as I’m in the Pleasurable Self-Loving all of the themes of how I connect are coming up , being single for some time now I had forgotten the unresolved emotions that have not been triggered in a while , so now I have my home base practice I can move through this healing that is happening and it does feel so much more grown up! It feels sexier and mature and empowering not to be in such a rush and to have my body trust me. I love this session Because I'm resonating with the themes you speak about and I used to borrow all your faith Saida but now I can actually lean into my own!!!
Z.K.
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Frequently asked questions

Absolutely! Whether you’re a novice or quite experienced, there’s always more to learn about pleasure.

Purely solo (self-loving) pleasure practices that can enhance any partnered experience.

We will model shamefree, guiltfree, deeply respectful self-loving.

The Daring Project Facebook group. If you’re not on facebook, we’ll invite you into our Daring Project LITE, which meets on Zoom on the first and last Wednesday of the month. (But you’ll miss out on all the great conversations and camaraderie!)

We will use a silicon model of a female pelvis so you can see the techniques we are teaching as well as some pleasure-anatomy drawings. Dr. Saida will talk you through the practices with clothes-on.

Each weekly pleasurable self-loving session will be around 30mins (including the Q&A, which some times may go a little longer so plan for 45mins, just in case we go over).

This is for consenting adults and parent-supervised young adults.

Yes. We will be encouraging everyone to work with their own body and to discover the hidden pleasures within their own unique self. Adaptations may be modeled if needed.

Embrace a journey of self-discovery and pleasure. The Awakening The Sensual Woman Immersion is your key to unlocking a life filled with confidence, pleasure, and self-acceptance. Embark on this transformative journey and ignite the fire within you.

Don’t let another season pass you by without experiencing the joy, liberation, and empowerment that come with embracing your desires. Register now to secure your access to the replays of the Awakening The Sensual Woman Immersion.

The guided body exploration was amazing !
Geneviève
My body loves the voice meditation. Talk about arousal... Yes!
Beth
I have been loving the Pleasurable Self-Loving! It has come at such a perfect time for me in a deep heart healing process.
H.F.W.
Really enjoying Aaron's input and the balance between the two of you. I hope this continues.
M.B.
Beautiful session. I especially enjoyed moving my body into touch versus the touch coming into the body and leading the flow.
E.F.
Love having Aaron part of the process. Love the dynamic between you two and the combined genius. Definitely a plus.
B.B.
You are truly guiding people back to normalcy, Saida & Aaron, and doing so with grace, dignity & love. As eros is understood, personally, we can deeply enjoy the tickles, giggles and orgasms of our bodies daily.
R.B.
I've loved and trusted Saida as a guide for years, and I am enjoying the respectful and gentle guidance that Aaron is bringing to the calls.
M.S.
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